I’m sorry but this is complete horse-shit! For a start the article strawmans the living crap out of the average MRA position.

Feminists didn’t model themselves after what men want from them and men shouldn’t model themselves after what women want from them.

Feminism is not about men’s rights, never was, never will be! Clue is in the name people! similarly MRA is not about women’s rights. some feminist ideas might help men and some MRA ideas might help women but that is an added bonus not the primary objective. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being on one side or the other as long as it’s not at the expense of the other!

I’d like to think I have a balanced view point. There are a lot of things I agree with feminists about and there are a lot of things I agree with on the MRA side too. I also recognise the bullshit coming from both sides.

If you think feminism is going to fight for men’s right or you think Men’s rights activism is going to fight for women’s rights you are an idiot. A feminist might fight for a man’s rights and an MRA might fight for a woman’s rights but that is the individual, it IS NOT the responsibility nor the intention of the movement!

Get a grip on reality people!

Outdated, sexist social constructs and biology BOTH play a part in how people are and why there are more men in some roles and vise-versa, again if you deny this you’re an idiot!

That being said there is more variation within the sexes than there is between them and for this reason discrimination is completely irrational. I don’t if men earn more on average, I don’t care if women earn more as long as they are given equal opportunity, women aren’t called dykes for choosing a careerer and men aren’t looked on as scum for choosing to stay at home. It’s about equal opportunity, not forcing equal outcome.

Right I know how sensitive you children can get so for the the purpose of simplification in the rest of this post when I say feminist(s) or MRA(s) I’m not refering to all feminist(s), MRA(s) I’m referring to how I see the people/movement as a generalisation or a subsection of said movement/people.

We will never have a truely equal society unless men and women can learn to work together, listen to each other’s views and actually cooperate. So feminists, MRAs, stop bickering, apologise and kiss and make up!

Feminists, fighting to reduce the wage gap is all well and good but you need to look at it from both sides. How can women EVER expect to average the same pay as men whilst at the same time >90% want a man who earns more and their is a stigma attached to being a house husband.

Sex-positive feminists, when MRAs are talking about feminists passing laws 99% of the time THEY AREN’T TALKING ABOUT YOU! The rad-fems are the ones with political power, you know this! You talk about it all the freaking time! Don’t give me the no true Scotsman fallacy, rad-fems are feminists whether you like it or not and they ARE feminists passing laws!

Feminists (and I’ve going to say this again, I’m not talking to ALL feminists) The demonisation of the men’s rights movement I’ve seen recently is beyond disgusting! Do you REALLY not see the hypocracy when you say things like “MRAs lump all feminists together?” Do you KNOW all MRAs? REALLY? No you don’t so stop the hypocritical bull shit. I didn’t used to label myself as an MRA but you know what? Now I’m taking that label so next time you say that I’m going to take personal offence and call you a biggot.

Feminists, when people talk out against false rape allegation THIS DOES NOT TO THE SLIGHTEST DEGREE MEAN THEY CONDONE RAPE OR THAT THEY THINK NEARLY EVERY RAPE ALLEGATION IS A LIE. Ok there are SOME people who think this way but these people are fucking cunts, plain and simple. The fact is that the amount of false rape allegations is NOT a statistically insignificant figure and the ordeal a falsely accused man has to go through is fucking horrific. Imagine being arrested, handcuffed and locked in a cell for 24 hours, having your DNA, finger print and hair samples taken, being strip searched, having your penis scraped to gather skin samples, having to pee in a cup in front of two police officers and being questioned for 3 hours. Having to tell your family, your friends, your workplace. Possibly losing your job, having people not believe you, having your kids taken away and having to watch your back, constantly worried because the psycho bitch might have got someone to attack you. Then Waiting a month if to go on trial and even if you’re lucky enough to be found innocent you’ll know that there is always going to be people who don’t believe you, ALL because somebody decided to lie out of spite. I think that when a rape case is provably false the accuser should have as much jail time as a rapist.

If you’re enough of a heartless bitch to not give a shit about that then maybe you can see it from a selfish point of view, false accusers are the main reason why people don’t believe rape victims, why the hell are you not equally angry about this?

Feminists don’t try to make us apologise for the actions of others.

Don’t worry I’ll be getting to the MRAs soon… Deep breaths James.. deep breaths you’re nearly done….  Feminists and other anti-MRAs Realise that there ARE VERY legitimate causes within the men’s rights movement.

* Suicide rate is higher among men and boys.

* We work later and die earlier

* Male health issues receive a fraction of the funding female issues do.

* We make up the vast majority of workplace fatalities.

* Both men and women are more likely to murder a man.

* False rape accusers nearly always get off with a slap on the wrist and many do it again.

* Men receive harsher punishments for the same crimes.

* Male circumcision is legal.

* Most people just don’t give a shit about violence towards men.

And that’s just off the top of my head. As I said before feminism IS NOT going to fight for this we need MRAs.

Feminists, make up your minds, are you weak and vulnerable children who need protection from the stater or are you emotionally mature adult human beings.

Rad-fem. Go fuck yourselves.

Women, most of you aren’t anywhere near as good in bed as men tell you are.

Men, neither are you.

Men and women, communicate with each other and be honest for fuck sake, especially in bed.

Women, when the one guy who respects you enough as an adult to tell you the truth about your performance tells you you’re doing something wrong don’t cry about it, listen to him! Maybe this applies to men as well I wouldn’t know.

MRA’s and feminists, realise that quite often you are your own worst enemies. Most of the slut-shaming I see comes from other women, most of the pressure for men to have to be masculine comes from other men and both sexes are more than willing to fuck each other over to compete for a man or woman.Realise that there are inequities on BOTH sides in different areas and learn to take responsibility for your own failings as human beings when necessary.

Feminists and MRAs, if somebody doesn’t use the label feminist or mra or they use the opposite label to you that doesn’t mean that they don’t care about gender equality and realise that most of them, as deluded and bitter as you might think they are, genuinely believe that they are fighting for the right cause.

Right on to the MRA’s…..

Firstly when you mention feminists make sure you make it clear which group of feminists you’re talking about or don’t come crying to me when feminists do the same to you.

Realise that not ALL of our problems stem from feminism and work more on improving the attitudes of men and give them the confidence to make their own decisions and to fight for their rights without their emotions being clouded by bitterness and resentment from how women have treated them in the past.

MRAs, stop calling people manginas okay???? I know why you do it and a lot of the time I agree with you but Jesus-fucking-Christ-on-a-stick a swear sometimes you’re just trying to alienate as many people as you physically can. You want people to see things from your point of view right? Well maybe just maybe speak to them like human beings and eventually you might get through to them!

Men stop thinking with your dicks, women enjoy sex just as much as us if you do it properly, so don’t give in to women’s demands in order to get sex. Trust me you’ll get a lot more if you display some confidence, take care of yourself, get the fuck out of the house and don’t grovel.

MRA’s don’t lump the whole left wing together saying that you can’t be to the left and support men’s rights, this is complete and utter bullshit and all you’re serving to do is alienate many potential activists! If you have to blame the left explain the individual policy which is causing the problem and perhaps people on the left will listen, I for one wouldn’t change parties over this one issue.

Thanks for reading and I’m looking forward to the severe crippling trolling that I’m about to receive from both sides :)